Patricia “Jean” Venables, nee Ashley
I Kevin Marc may be diagnosed with high function autism, pathological demand avoidance and ADHD with many issues that’s built up through my first 32 years without any diagnosis and the above being diagnosed over the period of 2002 – 2014. When we lost mum in August 2022, I knew I couldn’t let mum down and I look after her little girl (Duffy) like my little sister, she loves being the boss and I find myself wanting to spend time with her although Duffy does allow me a flexible 4 hours off every day.
To remember our mum, I created a this profile as a permanent remembrance, prior to mum’s farewell which was the same date and time as Her Majesty the Queen Elizabeth II clearly shows mum was and always will be a special and loving mum committed to Darren, Charlie, Duffy and me and we will always carry her in our hearts and minds forever. I initially created a farewell photo book on behalf of Duffy and ALL attendees at the farewell absolutely loved browsing the pictures and the comments I put under each photo. Due to the success of the photobook I decided to create personalised photobooks for me, Darren & Caroline, Grandson Sam, Grand Daughter Evie May, Auntie Brenda (Mum’s sister), best friend Ingrid and her previous work colleagues at Caerwyn Jones. “TO THE BEST MUM IN THE UNIVERSE, FOREVER IMMORTAL IN THE NEXT WORLD” |
The story of Patricia “Jean” Venables, nee Ashley
A little about mum
Jean was born on 7th June 1948 to Irene & Francis Ashley the last child of four, who are Brenda, Colin, and Clive. The family house was ‘Rosedene’ in Middletown a delightful 3 bedroom semi-detached. (for the remainder of this story I will call jean as mum as she was (still is the best mum in the world). Mum’s first school was the original Great Wollaston which is now a residential house situated leading to Middletown as you are travelling to Welshpool on the left. Mum’s secondary school was The Grammar School in Welshpool, this former school situated in the community of Welshpool, the old County of Montgomeryshire was built in 1853 to the designs of George Gilbert Scott. No longer in use as a school it recently been used as a Masonic Hall. The following is some of the comments from the Head Mistress written in school reports which mum carefully kept and are now safely kept in mum’s eternity box. Head Mistress: F H Rossers Age 11 (1959) Comments Jean has produced pleasing work with continued effort she should do well Age 12 (1961) Comments A very good report Jean has continued to apply herself diligently and with considerable interest and has gained some very pleasing results, More attention should now be given to subjects below the pass mark. Age 13 (1962) Comments Again, A very good report, indicating pleasing progress Jean is proving herself a diligent pupil of more then average intelligence Age 14 (1962) Comments This report shows that Jean is working well in most subjects, She must strive to improve her standard in mathematics and biology. Age 15 (1963) Comments Jean has made fair progress in most subjects but is inconsistent in her efforts. We hope she will realise the value of completing her course to ‘O’ level After mum left Grammar School, she met William Charles Venables and at the age of 18 got married in All Saints Church with the wedding party at the Middletown Village Hall. Due to dad joining the navy they were both stationed in Singapore for 2 years and during this period my brother Darren Paul Venables was born in June 1967. Upon returning to the UK, they initially lived with Nan and Grandad at Rosedene. Our first home from 1969 was in Heath Farm for a few years which is where I was born in March 1970 sadly my parents decided to separate, and the council provided mum, Darren, and myself the house on Moneybrook Way where we continued to live until 1999. During the 70’s mum went to Shrewsbury Technical College to obtain a GCE in English Language Grade B, Typewriting Grade A-, Shorthand Grade B, Secretarial Duties Grade C+, Calculations. The overall mark was Actual 333 out of a possible 356. The three main jobs mum worked excellently for ALL employers were: • Adrian Richards Chartered Accountants (Accounts) Mum thankfully always worked and was financially independent. In the early 90’s mum decided to purchase our council house and in 1999 mum, me Charlie (mum’s loyal cat) moved to a new 2-bedroom house. We all settled well, and Charlie made friends with Dylan at No. 6 and Dennis the Menace at No. 2. Sadly Charlie (Mummy’s little boy) passed away in 2008 due to cancer. In 2009, mum once again visited Shropshire Cat Rescue with Darren and grand daughter Evie May to choose Duffy who certainly became a mummy’s little girl and her No. 1. Mum managed to save enough money to take Darren and me to a caravan holiday with Auntie Doreen with her two children (Amanda & Daniel), with a previous boyfriend Roger Boswell accompanied with his two children (Jamie & Sarah) who still live in Norfolk. A final holiday was with a friend and her two daughters. Around 2008 / 09 mum went with Brenda & Aneurin to Paris, France. Mum was very house proud and created a lovely home by decorating the entire house by herself and hiring a landscape gardener to create the garden the before and after pictures included. She arranged for a lovely decorative marble background fireplace with a brass gas fire and mahogany surround. Hobs & Hotplates suppled and fitted a new kitchen, and the final house improvement was a new fitted bathroom. Mum’s Family Tree (short version) Grand Parents (Paternal) Grand Parents (Maternal) Father: Francis Harold Ashley Mother: Rose Irene Roderick Ashley nee’ Hilditch Children (Mum’s Siblings) Brenda’s Children: Francis Colin Ashley Colin’s Children: Desmond Clive Ashley Clive’s Children: Patricia Jean Venables Jean’s Children: THANK YOU, FOR READING ABOUT MUM AND RELAXING ON HER DEDICATED BENCH TO ALWAYS REMEMBER MUM, LORD CHARLIE & LADY DUFFY IN A TRANQUIL LOCATION SURROUNDED BY THE MOST WONDERFUL RESIDENTS CATS ENJOYING A BEAUTIFUL HOME. |